Will Wealth (or Love) Make a Woman Overlook a #BreakBaby?

First Dwyane Wade marries Gabriel Union after news hit about his #breakbaby. Now, Ludacris proposes to his longtime boo Eudoxie after news hit this year about a child being conceived (and born) outside of their relationship. Is this the norm nowadays?  Do men feel as though the only way to say “please forgive me” is to “put a ring on it?”

Yes, like most women, I like nice gifts. And yes, if my man does wrong, diamonds could be a great way to apologize. But, a diamond ring (or wealth) couldn’t replace the embarrassment of an outside baby. You see Tina Knowles finally left her no good husband Matthew!  At some point, as women, we have to love ourselves enough to be okay with leaving a tarnished relationship.

AND…don’t let Instagram fool you. It is okay being single.

Infidelity during a relationship can be manageable. However, cheating and creating a baby, is something totally different. There are levels to cheating and a baby tops the charts. Infidelity and babies being conceived has been going on for years. I know this. Some women part ways, while others remain in the relationship despite looking like a plum fool. But, for what reason though?

Is it the money and the lifestyle that these men provide? Or is it because of LOVE?

Please help me figure it out readers.

WHAT DO YOU THINK IT IS? IF YOU WERE IN THAT POSITION, WOULD YOU STAY AND GET MARRIED? OR WOULD YOU LEAVE?

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Ms. Bels is unlike any other female publisher in the game. A true go-getter that bridges her Westside ATL upbringing with corporate swag. The savviness of this only-child has afforded her a successful 15+ year career in business management, budget analysis and accounting; Stacks Entertainment LLC was her first entrepreneurial baby. Stacks Publishing Group LLC (SPG) is her second and, prayerfully, becomes the gateway to an extraordinary life. Always on-the-go, Bels finds time for a mixture of mischief and positivity. Traveling across the globe, shopping, writing, and giving back to the community are a few things she enjoy. Oh and she loves to laugh.

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